You Gotta Be You: How to Embrace This Messy Life and Step Into Who You Really Are

"What if fitting in wasn’t worth the energy, the pain? Who would you be if you could shove off other people’s expectations? Brandon Kyle Goodman, who is Black, queer and nonbinary, has done a lot of work trying to figure that out for themself, and they’re sharing all they’ve learned – the highs, the lows, the mess – in this book. How can we show up better to love others, while respecting our own boundaries so we can better love ourselves? We laughed, we cried, we cry-laughed — and by the end, felt better about bringing our full selves to everything we do."