Want Me: A Sex Writer's Journey Into the Heart of Desire

"As a woman, dating men is kind of exhausting – especially when you consider all of the ways women’s understanding of our own sexuality is shaped by the male gaze. In her new memoir, Want Me: A Sex Writer’s Journey Into the Heart of Desire, Jezebel writer Tracy Clark-Flory unpacks the different ways women are taught to be passive objects of lust, rather than active participants in sex. Through a combination of personal stories, previous reporting and feminist theory, Clark-Flory decodes the messy yet massively rewarding journey of taking agency over one’s pleasure, with or without a partner."