The Gardener and the Carpenter

"This book's exploration of child development and the limits of parental control aligns with Derek Sivers's focus on individual agency and unconventional approaches to life. It likely resonates with his interest in effective learning and personal growth."

"the example I give in in my book the gardener and the carpenter is if you have a garden that is protected and has has a lot of possibilities you're going to get a much wider variety of plants than if you have a much more restricted kind of circumstance in which only a few plants…"